We often use the word “better” in our daily lives, hoping for “better days,” “better health,” or “better relationships.” This universal aspiration for improvement resonates deeply, especially during life’s inevitable changes. For Chris Cleveland of Stars Go Dim, the past few years have been transformative, a journey reflected in his deeply personal new music, particularly the song known as the “know me song,” officially titled “You Know Me Better.”
Life is a series of seasons, encompassing immense joy and profound sorrow, periods of pain and healing, moments of rebuilding and strength. The songs Stars Go Dim is releasing now are musical snapshots from these diverse seasons in Chris’s life. He recounts a significant shift from leading worship at a megachurch in Oklahoma for a decade and constant touring, a demanding schedule that placed immense pressure on his wife, who managed their home and three young children.
A necessary change arrived when Chris and his family decided to step away from their comfortable, established life and place their trust in faith – a profound leap that, in his words, felt like “trusting Him for the first time.” They relocated, and Chris transitioned away from his church role, taking an unprecedented six-month sabbatical. For someone identifying as a type 3 enneagram – “the achiever” – this period of complete rest was incredibly challenging yet ultimately rewarding. This intentional pause allowed for rest, healing, and a renewed sense of faith. During this reflective time, Chris found himself writing, creating a “soundtrack” for these pivotal moments – moments marked by both struggle and hope. This collection of experiences forms the heart of his new music.
“You Know Me Better”: Finding Identity Beyond Performance
The song “You Know Me Better” emerged from this transformative period, co-written with talented friends who supported Chris through challenging times. He reveals that his identity had become intertwined with his talent and stage persona. Stripping away these external aspects left him questioning who he truly was. The lyrics of “You Know Me Better” became a personal anchor: “I am who You say I am. Your word will never change, I am who You day I am … You know me as honest. You know me as good. You know me the way that I wish I could. You know me worthy. You know me loved. You know me better.” These words served as a vital reminder that his worth extended far beyond his profession or abilities. He discovered a deeper identity rooted in something greater than himself, recognizing his inherent goodness as part of his creation.
This realization is powerful: God’s profound understanding of us surpasses our own self-perception, seeing us as better than we might even believe ourselves to be. This foundational understanding gave rise to other songs on the album, including “It’s Gonna Get Better,” an encouraging anthem for those navigating difficult times, affirming that it’s okay to struggle and that hope for improvement exists. “For Worse or Better” is a heartfelt pop song dedicated to Chris’s wife, reinforcing their enduring commitment and love. “Invisible” is a tribute to mothers, acknowledging their tireless efforts and often unacknowledged contributions. Finally, “Autobiography,” a late addition to the album, encapsulates the collection’s joyful and energetic spirit, providing a complete and uplifting listening experience.
Stars Go Dim is set to release these songs and more in the coming months, unfolding new music each month through May. Accompanying content is also planned to offer deeper insights into the soul and stories behind the music. Chris Cleveland expresses gratitude for this new chapter, the opportunity to create music with purpose, and for listeners who connect with his songs. He offers a heartfelt thank you, hoping listeners will find resonance and meaning in this personal musical journey.
God bless,
Chris Cleveland
