So, it happened. My curious toddler ventured onto YouTube and discovered it. The Daddy Finger Song. Now, our house is a constant loop of “Daddy finger, daddy finger, where are you?” and honestly, sometimes I feel like hiding.
If you’re reading this, you probably know exactly what I’m talking about. This simple nursery rhyme, also known as the Finger Family song, has an undeniable grip on toddlers. When your little one gets hooked, you’re faced with a choice: embrace the catchy tune or try to divert their attention.
Here’s how we’re navigating the Daddy Finger Song craze in our home and managing to keep our sanity intact.
What Exactly IS the Daddy Finger Song?
For those blissfully unaware, let me introduce you to the phenomenon that is the Daddy Finger Song. Emerging on YouTube around 2007, this nursery rhyme quickly morphed into a viral sensation.
It started innocently enough with a family of fingers: Daddy, Mommy, Brother, Sister, and Baby. But the internet, as it does, ran with the idea. Soon, countless variations popped up featuring animals, Disney characters, cartoon figures – you name it, there’s probably a Finger Family version of it.
If you’re still in the dark, take a quick listen:
It’s catchy, right? Too catchy. That’s why YouTube is overflowing with billions of these videos. And yes, it will likely be playing on repeat in your head all day now. Sorry (not sorry?).
Toddlers are naturally drawn to the Daddy Finger Song. Its simplicity, repetition, and sing-along nature are perfect for their developing minds. Plus, the finger play aspect is incredibly engaging for them! Finger play is a fantastic way for toddlers to learn and have fun.
While toddlers are captivated, many adults find the relentless repetition… grating. To put it mildly.
Option 1: Embrace the Daddy Finger Song Obsession!
Believe it or not, there’s a case to be made for leaning into the Daddy Finger Song craze. If you think you can handle it, your toddler will absolutely love you for joining their obsession.
Let them explore the vast world of Daddy Finger Song videos on YouTube. There are truly endless variations to discover!
Sing along with them and get involved in the finger play yourself. Make it interactive! Consider getting finger puppets to amplify the fun. We incorporate the song into daily routines like diaper changes and bath time.
Add the song to your music playlists! Put it on your Spotify or Amazon Music playlists for car rides and outings. If you have a smart speaker like an Echo Dot, use it to play the song and have impromptu dance parties in your living room.
Get crafty with a Finger Family theme!
Trace your hands and let your toddler decorate the fingers as family members. Use stickers, glitter, pipe cleaners, construction paper, and any art supplies you have on hand. Sing the Daddy Finger Song while you create. Let’s face it, you’ll probably be humming it constantly anyway!
You can even find fun emoji stickers on Amazon to personalize your finger family creations.
Option 2: Deflect and Divert from the Daddy Finger Song
If you fall firmly into the “never want to hear that song again” camp, I completely understand. But escaping the Daddy Finger Song requires a strategic diversion.
First rule of deflection: minimize YouTube access.
The Daddy Finger Song is pervasive online. It’s constantly suggested in kid-related video feeds. Unless you have complete control over their viewing, YouTube might need to be off-limits for a while.
Sanity-Saving Distractions: Alternatives to the Finger Family Song
When we need a break from the Finger Family, these are our go-to diversions:
The Wiggles
The Wiggles are a classic for a reason. They offer a vast catalog of nursery rhymes and original children’s songs.
While still catchy (it’s kids’ music, after all), The Wiggles offer variety. With their extensive library, you can play an hour of Wiggles tunes without hearing the same song twice.
The Wiggles are accessible on YouTube (with parental supervision!), Hulu (as Ready, Steady, Wiggle), and Amazon.
Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood
Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood is a household favorite for us. It’s educational, engaging, and packed with valuable life lessons – for toddlers and parents!
Like The Wiggles, Daniel Tiger has plenty of episodes to prevent endless repeats of the same content. The songs are repetitive (it’s Daniel Tiger!), but arguably more tolerable than the Daddy Finger Song.
Daniel Tiger is available on Amazon Prime Video.
ABCMouse.com
ABCMouse.com offers a range of interactive videos and games for toddlers. Our toddler particularly loves their version of “The Wheels on the Bus.” Read our review of ABCMouse here.
Classic Nursery Rhymes
Remember, the Daddy Finger Song is a nursery rhyme. Why not redirect your toddler to other, more familiar classics?
The nursery rhymes we grew up with might be easier for us to handle on repeat. Explore a collection of classic nursery rhymes and see if your toddler takes to them.
Finding Balance: Embrace and Deflect
The good news is, you don’t have to choose just one approach. Even if you’re willing to let your child enjoy the Daddy Finger Song, setting boundaries is perfectly acceptable – and often necessary for parental sanity!
It’s okay to limit how often or how long your toddler watches the videos or sings the song. Remember, toddler obsessions are usually phases.
This too shall pass. (Probably to be replaced by another equally catchy tune!)
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